Categories
Benny Blanco Selena Gomez Weddings

Selena Gomez wore Ralph Lauren for her Santa Barbara wedding with Benny Blanco

Which do you prefer, when celebrities post more lowkey, homespun wedding photos on their social media, or when they sell or give their wedding exclusive to a magazine? In recent years, so many celebrities have been giving or selling their wedding photos to magazines. Vogue is a big one, and I thought Selena Gomez would go that route for her wedding to Benny Blanco. Benny and Selena married in Santa Barbara on Saturday. While Vogue was given some exclusive-ish details, the magazine did not get exclusive photos. Instead, Selena just posted a carousel on Instagram, and some of the photos don’t even feel like professional portraits whatsoever. I dig it? It’s nice to have a celebrity wedding presented in a less formal way.

Congratulations are in order for Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, who are now officially married. The couple, who became engaged in December 2024 after a year of dating, said “I do” today in Santa Barbara.

The weekend affair kicked off with a rehearsal dinner on Friday evening at a mansion in the private community of Hope Ranch in Santa Barbara County, nestled among the foothills of the Santa Ynez Mountains.

The ceremony itself reportedly took place at the lush Sea Crest Nursery, in front of around 170 of the couple’s family and friends (and staffed with extra security). Large white tents were erected at the site for eating, dancing, and celebrating throughout the night.

Guests included Gomez’s longtime friend Taylor Swift, as well as Paul Rudd and her Only Murders in the Building co-stars Martin Short and Steve Martin. Paris Hilton, Ed Sheeran, Ashley Park, and Gomez’s Wizards of Waverly Place co-star David Henrie were also present. Gomez previously told Drew Barrymore on The Drew Barrymore Show that “Marty [Short] is due to give a speech,” while “Steve [Martin] will probably pull out his banjo”—although that hasn’t been confirmed just yet.

The bride wore a custom hand-draped halter-neck satin dress with embroidery—with a bouquet of lily of the valley—while the groom opted for a black tuxedo. Both were dressed by Ralph Lauren.

[From Vogue]

Her Ralph Lauren gown was beautiful – at times, Selena has the tendency to pour herself into too-tight gowns for red carpets, but there was none of that at her wedding. The gown was a halter, with her girls covered up and a floral applique at the neck. It’s lovely. She was a beautiful bride. She and Benny seem well-suited and I truly hope it lasts.

PS… Page Six reported that Selena & Benny used the same wedding planners hired by Justin Bieber & Hailey Baldwin in 2019. Sigh…

Photos courtesy of Selena’s Instagram and Avalon Red.

Categories
Benny Blanco Relationships Selena Gomez

Selena Gomez got a rash the first time she kissed Benny Blanco

Embed from Getty Images


Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco have been together for about a year and a half. They got engaged in December 2024. When they first got together, there were a lot of side eyes thrown their way. One or two of them came from me. But now, after getting to know who Benny really is and seeing the pure happiness that Selena wears every day, they’re kinda becoming one of my favorite celeb couples. I guess it’s a lesson in not judging a book by its cover. Plus, the man is super talented. He’s really, really good at his job.

This week, Selena and Benny did a joint appearance on the podcast, Table Manners with Jessie and Lennie Ware. We’ve always known that they had been friends and coworkers for a decade before they finally got together. They shed some new light on their relationship, including sharing some never-before-known details about how it started. One of the many stories they told on the pod was about their first kiss, which happened on their second date. Selena was so taken by their “very good” first kiss that she got a rash on her face! In fact, it even happened twice!

“We were hanging on our second date, towards the end of the date, we were sitting in the living room, on the couch and we were playing ‘We’re not really strangers,’ ” Blanco said. “And there was a thing where it said, ‘Take a selfie with the person next to you,’ and we were already kind of lounging and she got right on my chest and took a selfie and then right after I just looked at her and I said, ‘I got to kiss this girl.’ ”

“And I kissed her right away,” the music producer continued.

Asked if it was a good kiss, Gomez added, “It was a very good kiss.”

“Right away, her heart started beating quickly, she started getting a rash on her face and she was so nervous,” Blanco said.

Gomez then shared that she “hadn’t liked anyone in a very long time, so some kisses are for fun and then when you feel something behind the kiss it’s completely different.”

“I had been alone for about five years with the exception of a few s—– dates here and there, but never felt that way,” she continued. “And I was a little embarrassed, but he was like, ‘Are you okay?’ And I was like, ‘No, no, I’m fine.’ I didn’t want to be like, ‘I like you, I really like you.’ ”

Blanco went on to reveal that while the reaction happened again, everything “felt so natural” when they were hanging out from that moment on.

The couple, who confirmed their relationship in December 2023, went on to announce their engagement in December 2024. “Forever begins now..” Gomez wrote alongside shots of her diamond ring.

The pair first met in 2013 through Gomez’s mom, Mandy Teefey, before collaborating on music. Blanco went on to co-produce the songs “Kill Em With Kindness” and “Same Old Love” on Gomez’s 2015 album, Revival.

[From People]

OMG, this is so adorable and so relatable! I’ve never gotten a rash like that, but I know that flush feeling she felt. She must have liked him so much. You know it’s right when everything feels so natural, like it just clicks. After they told the story, one of the hosts joked that Selena needed “Benny-dryl” to help cure her rash, which made me chuckle. Selena also revealed that she asked her grandma for help making her southern chicken and dumplings recipe so she could make it for Benny to help win him over.

I really like that they were friends first. It puts the quick engagement into a context that makes a lot more sense. Their chemistry is pretty evident throughout the episode, too. In addition to their first kiss, they also talk about their first date. Benny didn’t even realize that it was a date! Selena suggested they hang out, so they got a drink at a wine bar before hitting up a birthday party. He didn’t even put together that it was a date until she brought it up. That’s too funny. Once again, I take back every side-eye I ever threw at them. They are truly adorable together.

Embed from Getty Images

photos credit: T.Jackson/Santi Ramales/Backgrid, Getty and via Instagram

Categories
Benny Blanco Selena Gomez

Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco are engaged after a year of dating

I’ll admit it: I have not been a supporter of Selena Gomez’s relationship with Benny Blanco. I felt like there was another shoe to drop, or that he would turn out to be an idiotic man-child who was wasting her time. But Benny stuck around… for a year, and this is maybe the happiest Selena has been in a while. Benny just proposed, and Selena obviously said yes. She posted photos of her ring – a nice-sized marquise diamond – on her Instagram with the caption “forever begins now.”

Congratulations are in order for Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco! The singer-actress, 32, announced that she and the producer, 36, are engaged!

She shared the news via an Instagram carousel on Wednesday, Dec. 11, including an up-close snap of her engagement ring and a pic of her and Blanco celebrating their engagement with laughs and a hug.

“forever begins now..,” she captioned the post.

Blanco is ready to make their union official as he commented, “hey wait… that’s my wife.”

The bride-to-be also proudly posted a mirror selfie, showing off her new ring even more in her Instagram Stories. During a May appearance on The Howard Stern Show, Blanco told Stern that he could see marriage in his future with the Only Murders In The Building actress.

[From People]

I’m sort of examining my own feelings about why I was sure Benny would end up screwing her over. I think it’s because Selena has historically had a bad picker? But maybe she’s changed or maybe she accidentally found a good guy. Anyway, congrats to them. One great thing is that he seems fine with Selena being “the star” of the relationship. He doesn’t seem insecure about that at all, which is what she needs.

Photos courtesy of Selena’s Instagram.