Grant Harrold, the former “royal butler” of King Charles’s Highgrove estate, is still shilling his book. Harrold seems to be following the royal party line, and it would not surprise me at all if the palace had issued some talking points for him to follow, especially when it comes to Prince Harry. Well, somewhat hilariously, Harrold was asked about Prince William and then-Kate Middleton’s infamous 2007 breakup. Back then, William was being pressured to either propose to Kate or dump her, and he chose “dump her.” There was tons of documentation that William celebrated the breakup and went looking for other girlfriends (only to be turned down by the posh girls). Kate and her mother came up with a plan to ensnare William yet again, and it worked – six months after he dumped Kate, they were back together. Would you like Harrold’s take on all of this?
By now, Prince William and Kate Middleton have been together for the better part of 25 years—save for a few months in 2007, when they briefly broke up after graduating from the University of St. Andrews in Scotland (where they originally met in 2001).
Royal butler Grant Harrold—who began his service for the royal household the day after Princess Diana’s death on August 31, 1997 and who left royal employ just 18 days after William and Kate’s wedding on April 29, 2011—was around for the breakup, working at Prince Charles’s country home, Highgrove, at the time of their split. In his new book The Royal Butler: My Remarkable Life in Royal Service, which is out in the U.S. on September 23, Harrold writes that, even through their breakup, “Kate was always the one.”
Speaking exclusively to InStyle, Harrold says that during their breakup, William’s demeanor “became very quiet,” he says. “He went very quiet. He became a little bit withdrawn. I didn’t see a huge amount of him. I didn’t ask him—I didn’t say anything. I just knew he wasn’t himself 100 percent. I knew he wasn’t himself.”
Harrold speculates that maybe William and Kate “split up to get the media off Kate’s back, because it was so bad at the time,” he says of the rampant pressure on the couple in 2007 to get engaged. “Kate was struggling, and I wondered if it was to give a breathing space. That’s just my view. I had no information. So when they got back together, I remember thinking, ‘I wonder if they hadn’t really split up, they just had a bit of time apart [because of] the media.’”
During that time apart—only a few months in length—“I kept hoping that was the case and they would get back together, and I secretly wanted them to get back together,” Harrold says. When they did reconcile, he was “thrilled,” he adds.
Harrold describes the Kate he knew in the 2000s as “lovely, very bubbly, very talkative.”
“What’s funny—people think she’s shy,” Harrold says. “She’s not shy at all.” Kate had no airs about her and talked to Harrold about how his week was and what was happening. Even if he’d read headlines about her, he never mentioned it—“I always made out that I had no knowledge,” he says. “So I would kind of say, ‘What have you been up to, and what have you done?’ She was always lovely.”
One of the roles of a royal butler was to get a drink for anyone who needed one in the house, but Kate “would take care of herself,” Harrold says. “She wouldn’t let me do anything. ‘Can I get you a drink?’ She’d be in the fridge getting a drink. ‘I’ll get you a plate.’ She’s already got the plate. You know what I mean? She did everything herself.”
They keep trying to rewrite Will & Kate’s early years (!!) and it’s always so funny to those of us who were around for the coverage at the time. While the 2007 breakup was “the big one,” for years beforehand, William and Kate had a more loosey-goosey understanding that he got to sow his oats and pursue other women. They had tons of mini-splits before the big one in 2007, and no, that one did not happen because William was trying to get the media off Kate’s back. Hilariously, Kate was never more welcoming to the press than she was post-split. She was out constantly, going to nightclubs and parlaying her “royal ex-girlfriend” credentials to get into posh events. That was the plan – to show William what he was missing. It wouldn’t have worked if the posh girls had shown William any interest at all. Thankfully for Waity, the other girls weren’t into him.
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- 16941, LONDON, UNITED KINGDOM – Thursday August 09 2007. **UK OUT** Wearing a striking black and white figure hugging dress, Prince William’s on/off girlfriend Kate Middleton arrives home after a night of clubbing with friends in London’s trendy nightclub Bijou. Earlier this week Kate abandoned plans to take part in a cross-channel boat race for security reasons. Photograph:©Focus Pictures, PacificCoastNews.com ***FEE MUST BE AGREED PRIOR TO USAGE*** UK OFFICE: 44 131 225 3333/3322 US OFFICE: 1 310 261 9676,Image: 523204057, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: WORLD RIGHTS, DIRECT SALES ONLY UNLESS STATED OTHERWISE IN CAPTION – Fee Payable Upon Reproduction – For queries contact Avalon.red – [email protected] London: 44 (0) 20 7421 6000 Los Angeles: 1 (310) 822 0419 Berlin: 49 (0) 30 76 212 251 Madrid: 34 91 533 4289, Model Release: no, Credit line: Focus Pictures, PacificCoastNews.com / Avalon
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- KATE MIDDLETON, THE GIRLFRIEND OF PRINCE WILLIAM, ATTENDS THE SECOND DAY OF THE GATCOMBE PARK FESTIVAL OF BRITISH EVENTING, HELD AT GATCOMBE PARK NEAR TETBURY IN ENGLAND. 6 AUGUST 2005. PICTURES: /,Image: 542495898, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: WORLD RIGHTS – Fee Payable Upon Reproduction – For queries contact Photoshot – [email protected] London: 44 (0) 20 7421 6000 Florida: 1 239 689 1883 Berlin: 49 (0) 30 76 212 251, Model Release: no, Credit line: Anwar Hussein / Avalon
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North/South America Rights-London, Britain – 11/12/2006 – Ket Middleton gets herself into a tight spot as she comes back home on Sunday morning. She realizes she’s forgotten her keys. She waits around 40 minutes until Prince William comes to her rescue. He was at the Remembrance Day Service nearby and rushed to her side.
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September 5, 2007: Kate Middleton seen out and about in London today.
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August 1, 2007: Kate Middleton training on the River Thames for the Cross Channel Challenge, taking place later this month.
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July 26, 2007: Kate Middleton spotted leaving Mahiki nightclub in London, UK.
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March 13, 2007: Prince William and his girlfriend Kate Middleton attend the opening day of the Cheltenham festival.
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April 14, 2007: It is being widely reported that Prince William has seperated from long-time girlfriend Kate Middleton.
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3rd June, 2006: The Boodles Boxing Ball at The Royal Lancaster Hotel London. Spoonsored by Boodles and held in Aid of Sparks Sports Aiding Medical Research for Kids. One of the boxers, Hugh “Hunter” van Cutsem, had great royal support. Among those, Prince William’s girlfriend, Kate Middleton.
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